Best Sex Toys for Men, 2011

Great Gadgets for Guys.

Sure, your hand feels good. It knows what you like, it’s been there for you from the beginning, and it’s gotten you off reliably more times than you can count. But I tell you this: if you haven’t already gotten that very hand on a masturbation sleeve, prostate stimulator, and/or vibrating cock ring, you are most assuredly missing out on some of the greatest pleasure the world has to offer. Having played with dozens of men’s toys, I can guarantee that there’s something out there for every guy. Here’s a guide to some of my hand-tested personal favorites.

• Duet Vibrating Cock Ring
• Everyone loves a vibrating cock ring these days. They’re designed to provide added clitoral stimulation for your partner, but I’m sure that more than a few of you have said, “That’s great… but what’s in it for me?” Pleasing your partner is always important, but who wants to feel left out by a toy they’re wearing? For these situations, look no further than the Duet Vibrating Cock Ring. This one’s got two vibrators: one to tickle her clit, and one to buzz pleasantly below your balls! And beyond that, it does exactly what most cock rings are designed to do:
  • Hold the blood flow inside the penis, keeping your erection extra-hard for a longer period of time.
  • When worn around the balls as well, delay ejaculation, so you don’t come as quickly… and when you do, it’s friggin’ awesome. (See How to Use a Cock Ring for helpful tips.)

  Other suggestions: The classic Sonic Ring Kit is a great easy-to-use starter vibrating cock ring, beloved by many a first-timer. And Shag Factory Swing Ring sends its tingle all the way down to a metal ball that rocks against your perineum between thrusts! Or for the ultimate upgrade, try the rechargeable silicone Tor from Lelo: it’s environmentally friendly, and classy-looking to boot.

• Cobra Libre
• I’ve gotten pretty initimately familiar with the Cobra Libre, and I am not exaggerating when I tell you that it’s among the greatest inventions of humankind. This vibrating sleeve by Fun Factory stimulates the cock in a way that few guys have ever felt before: its dual motors bombard the glans and frenulum (on the underside, where the head meets the shaft) with a wide selection of vibrations and pulsations, guaranteed to get you off without any stroking or thrusting required. I know it may seem strange that it doesn’t cover the entire shaft, but trust me: you won’t be complaining when you feel what the Cobra Libre has to offer. 
• Other suggestions: One masturbation sleeve that demands recognition is the Tenga Air. This simple cylinder opens up to reveal an elastomer sleeve covered with dozens of different textures (so many, in fact, that your penis can’t possibly complain). On top of this, you can control the level of suction with an air release button. And the Fleshlight, with its velvety-soft Superskin vulva opening, is famous for good reason. (See How to Use the Fleshlight for all sorts of fun ideas.)
• Naughty Boy
• Every man should find his prostate (or P-spot) once in his life. I say “once” because I know that after the first time, he’ll revisit those good times over and over. And not only does a nice prostate massage feel amazing, but it’s good for you! (See How to Stimulate the Prostate for more info.) For the prostate pros out there, enjoy one of the most satisfying of all prostate toys: the Naughty Boy. The Naughty Boy is made of a cushy silicone, and contains a powerful bullet vibe. Its thoughtful shape targets both the prostate and perineum, and provides a feeling of fullness that few others can. It takes a lot to impress my prostate, but believe me, the Naughty Boy more than did the job.

         Other suggestions: If you’ve never gone spelunking for your P-spot before, the Aneros MGX is a perfect place to start; its hard plastic puts delectably firm pressure on your prostate, and the handle is perfectly designed for easy                               massage. I’ve also heard nothing but praises sung for Njoy’s stainless steel Pfun Plug: it’s weighty, smooth, cool, and versatile (manipulate it like you would the Aneros, or just pop it in and leave it there while you go about your business).

         Orgasm in a Box (His)

         Okay, so maybe you’re reading this article because you’ve got a friend/boyfriend/husband who’s too shy to buy himself a sex toy, or who’s skeptical that toys are for him. Fear not: the Orgasm in a Box (His) (a great value at $18!)       contains some of the best beginner-level men’s toys on the market, including a super-stretchy Tenga EggSonic Ring Kit (see above), and BabeLube samples. Help yourself (or your guy) see the light with these gateway toys, and you (or he) will never look back.

Other suggestions: The Big Daddy Pump draws blood to the penis, increasing sensitivity and temporarily expanding the tissue. (It’s not permanent, despite what Austin Powers might have you believe, but I can promise you that it’s a sensation you’ll never forget.) Or if you know a guy who’s curious about everything but can’t choose, try the